WHEN GET MARRY

Perhaps with this question also come questions like “When have children?” And When get divorce?, but the title  question is big important for the things is bringing for young first-time people in the field. Super-decision, as we define total refusal to listen any advice to do not marry, a large percentage of these young people (men and women) are so excited about the theme to consider the possible failures in it and literally they "JUMP THE BROOM".

This blog defends the fact that marriage is only once, it makes no sense get marry and divorce 3 months after, that is for the engagement, to fall in love, break, back, sleep with your friends, your partner{s friends, to know each other and know if you really want to spend your days whit that person, among other things.

Replying to the original question, "WHEN GET MARRY?", well, when you know you can not end up with your couple, when your goals are similar to those of your couple and when you do not want another couple, only when these three are given, you will have an excellent marriage, meanwhile you know yourself and to your partner.

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2nd CHANCE???...

 I am sure that at least once in any relationship you must have wondered if you should give or not a second chance to get back with your couple.  Is not so important who over but it does the reason you are finished, many factors influence to think get back and similarly there are many things they tell you not to return. the usual reasons to return, "I have a lot of time with him / her".

Perhaps children are using (heavy weight).

"It's the first time we discussed, we can fix it."

"It is normal that we discuss, we always managed" among others. 

      But the truth must examine why they ended, if it affects or injures to you in a very personal way, your family, if you think it's something you can not lose. A personal reasons i could not go with someone who mistreats me in any way, or anyone who betrays me or is unfaithful.

 At the end above giving a second chance to someone, its about giving a second chance you too, with courage and respect for yourself, if you ask me if I would give a second chance, of course, and even a third chance, this depends on who my couple is, how much i know him/her, if I'm sure that things will be better and the situation you have with that person, but beware, when there is a break somethings dont gonna be the same, there are only two options in a relationship, the couple evolves or regresses, where you think you are with your couple?

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